FlexiSPY – How To Catch a Cheating Spouse
Catching my spouse cheating was one of the most frustrating and terrible experiences of my life. I wasted weeks on end lying, taking time off work, spending funds, hiding, losing sleep, and so much more trying to catch my spouse’s infidelity.
I ended up nearly going insane and eventually learned that there were easier ways to go about this task that would have saved me all my trials.
What Did I Learn?
Catching your spouse doing the dirty deed with their lover is nearly impossible but there are tactics you can use to get a clear understanding of whether they are having an affair and whom with.
How NOT To Catch Your Spouse Cheating
My earliest attempt at discovering my partner’s affair was a dismal failure and probably pushed back my eventual discovery of their affair by months. In hindsight my mistake was that I jumped to conclusions too soon and revealed my cards before I had all the evidence I needed to prove the affair.
My first tip is, despite all the hardship involved, develop patience and NEVER act until you have irrefutable proof of the affair.
How To Follow Your Spouse
Following, or “tailing” as it’s known in pro circles, is a basic spying technique that can be very effective at discerning your partner’s clandestine routines. Let me start by saying that it takes a lot of practice to get this right and avoid detection. Here are a few pointers I picked up along the way:
- 1. Never use your own vehicle – Your spouse is more likely than not to identify a family car very quickly.
- 2. Use a car with tinted windows to avoid being seen – Dark colored vehicle make these conspicuous windows less obvious.
- 3. Rent a vehicle model that’s common in your area to further blend in.
- 4. If you intend to follow your partner over a number of days swap rental cars a few times.
- 5. Blend in with the traffic as much as possible – Don’t drive in a fashion that will draw attention to your car
- 6. Avoid getting directly behind your spouse.
- 7. OBEY THE LAW – Never run a red light or preform a traffic violation while following your spouse. This greatly increases the chance you’ll be noticed and can get you in BIG trouble.
Follow the paper trail
Catching a crime often requires meticulously searching for and identifying a pattern. Make a habit of documenting as much as you can of your partner’s activities.
Try to record some of the following for example:
- 1. Emails – Whenever possible try and get access to their email and don’t forget to check the trash folders.
- 2. Phone bills – Check up numbers called – especially those that are repeated often but are unfamiliar to you
- 3. Gas receipts and mileage from the family cars – Look for inexplicable journeys
- 4. Bank statement – Search for inexplicable expenditures, especially at gift item type stores
Using Cell Phone Spy Software
Eavesdropping is one of the earliest forms of surveillance and in it’s latest incarnation this form of surveillance has now made the leap to the mobile arena. Mobile phone monitoring software, also known as mobile spy applications or spyphones, is readily available on the internet to the layman consumer. Once installed on your spouse’s phone the application lets you log in to a secure web account to see for yourself exactly who they are talking to, what is being said and exchanged via messages and emails, where they are (courtesy of the GPS readings from their phone) and a whole lot more.
Conclusion
There are many methods to go about catching your spouse in his/her lies and deceit but from my experience relying on mobile phone spy software like Flexispy is the easiest, least time consuming and least expensive alternative for gathering actionable intelligence about your cheating partner.
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